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3/30 (Vanishing Purpose)


Writing Prompt: Write a poem about something (you wanted to hold on to) that ended too soon!

Vanishing Purpose

Children move on,

parents don’t; not as quickly.

Some wait for an empty nest;

others dread it;

making the nest 

more comfortable

so they don’t leave!

Some, 

their hearts break

like a double-egg yolk

cracked on the side of the bowl

much like the empty-nested parent’s heart-

like my heart-

who did not think 

this day would come so fast.

Brown eggs, white eggs;

Brown parents, white parents;

color doesn’t matter.

When it’s over, it’s over;

they leave.

No more 2 a.m. feeding;

shaking the bottle to mix stubborn formula.

No more holding them,

as they drink the bottle,

looking lovingly in your eyes

Purpose slowly vanishing!

No more binky!; 

It’s no longer needed.

No more excitement over learning to walk; 

they’re now running.

                          No more tantrums 

as they fall asleep in my arms fighting sleep.

No more footed pajamas;

they’re wearing big boy pajamas now.

No more forehead kisses;

they don’t want them.

No more cleaning their rooms.

No more karate classes and belts,

or all day football  tournaments.

No more 6 a.m. rousings,

as they wake and roll out of bed.

No more asking for 5 more minutes

as they shut off their alarm for the fifty-leventh time.

No more bus stop drop offs.

No more elementary, 

middle school, 

or high school graduations!

No more purpose!

Author:

I am a 53 year old empty nester, mother of four adult children, ages 22-34, and grandmother to two (River & Dakota) who's currently... figuring me out!

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